How You Can Form A Good Relationship With Your Home Caregiver
The idea of having someone come into your home and care for you might seem strange at first. This is your private space and your private life, and you're really only used to sharing it with people you know. Yet, home care has so many benefits — it takes the burden off of you and ensures you're safe, helping to prevent medical issues from worsening. And really, that caregiver is only going to feel like a stranger for a few weeks, especially if you take a few steps to help foster a good relationship with them. Here are those steps.
Have a friend or family member there with you at first.
See if one of your close friends or family members is able to come over the first time or two that the home care nurse visits. Most people are more open and comfortable when in the presence of a friend. It will be easier for you to get to know your caregiver when you're feeling comfortable and secure. Plus, your friend can help with things like showing the caregiver where things are and answering questions about your medication — which leaves you more time to simply socialize and get to know each other.
Share some details about your life.
You don't need to tell your caregiver your entire life story right off the bat. In fact, you shouldn't — that's likely to overwhelm them. You should, however, tell them a little about your history and what you did when you were younger. Share tidbits about your career, family, and hobbies. This will help them to see you as a person, not just another patient.
Ask questions.
Ask questions about your caregiver, too. Ask where they went to school, what they like to do for fun, and if they have any kids. Try not to ask too many questions about their job. While you might be curious about how they got into this career, you want to show them that you care about getting to know the other elements of their life, too.
Be patient.
Remember that as much as you are trying to get used to having a caregiver in your home, they are still getting used to caring for you, too. Even though they may have tons of experience caring for patients, they are brand-new to caring for you. If they do not do everything you requested perfectly right the first time, nicely remind them. Try not to get upset or short with them.
As you form a relationship with your caregiver, you will soon find that having them in your home is a joy and not a burden.
For more information, contact a company that offers home health care services.
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